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Entries in Life (75)

Monday
Dec262005

Happy Boxing Day!

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(Above: My mom-in-law's cats, Duffy and Mango, eye a cheeky squirrel just outside the window. The squirrel was having WAY too much fun with the fact that the cats couldn't reach him.)

Happy Boxing Day! What an odd name for a holiday, don't you think? People seem to differ about the origins, though it does seem that the original tradition was started to help maintain society's class structure in a one-way gift-giving practice since stories involve merchants giving gifts to servants, feudal lords giving gifts to serfs, employers giving money to servants, churches opening donation boxes for the poor.

In North America these days, Boxing Day seems to be more strongly associated with retail store sales. I'm HIGHLY tempted to check out the Boxing Day sale at Loomis Art Store in our neighbourhood, but I also really hate crowds.

I only recently ventured into this Loomis store for the first time and almost collapsed into a quivering hysterical fit right there in the lobby, it was SO my kind of store. Dear lord. The Web site doesn't list most of the what the store carries. Fortunately I was feeling cash-poor at the time as a result of finishing up Christmas shopping, so it was easier to resist the lure of all those crafty supplies.

Off to have lunch with my family soon, but here are a few pics from my holiday so far:

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My mom-in-law gave me a keyboard that rolls up:

Me and my rollable keyboard!


It's a 49-key, four-octave electronic keyboard that sounds remarkably like a piano considering its appearance. You can get about 100 other instrument sounds, but I like the piano the best. The keyboard also offers about 100 different rhythm accompaniments for those that like that sort of thing.

Reminds me so much of that Star Trek the Next Generation episode "Lessons" where Jean-Luc Picard jams on the penny whistle while his pal, Nella Darren, plays her futuristic rollable keyboard.

Yes, I'm a nerdgirl and proud of it. :-)

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Monday
Dec192005

Clara and the Bossy, xmas ornaments, blog poll results

For the interest of those attending GAfilk in early January: I've put together a package for the Interfilk auction which includes a copy of the DAW short story collection Magic Tails (contains a short story co-written by Michelle West and me), a fridge magnet made from a signed copy of my first Will Write For Chocolate strip (which launches next month through Offpanel Productions) AND a personal appearance by the buyer (or a friend of his/her choice) in My Life In A Nutshell. Yeah, I know, it's all about me-me-ME. :-) I hope to throw in some other fun stuff; more details in an upcoming Blathering.

Clara and the Bossy


The photo above is of Clara and the Bossy, my sister's newest book, due out in March. Check out the Ruth Ohi sticker on the cover! Speaking of my famous sister, one of my nieces (Jeff's brother's daughter) called the other day to say she just saw Ruth in an episode of This Is Daniel Cook. She thought it was me at first. :-)

The revamped Urban Tapestry site is now at http://www.urbantapestry.org! It's still somewhat under construction, but at least the basic structure's in place. Our goal was to update some of the info and make it a bit friendlier-looking. I also took out the blog; didn't make sense since both Allison and I already have online journals.

Yay, thanks to Jeff for brightening my home office! This afternoon he installed extra lights in my craft area as well as my desk, and a hanging lamp from the office tree, above my reading chair. I'm going to make an interesting lampshade and wind some realistic-looking greenery along the cord, to look like part of the tree.

Jeff is an unusual sort of technonerdboy in that not only is he good with computerstuff but is also handy with workroom tools; he likes building and fixing things. There was no space in our condo for a workroom but now he has a space set up in one corner of the basement. Jeff says he's going to build a bookshelf for my paperbacks, to fit in the narrow space in the entranceway of my office.

Considering Jeff's pretty busy with work and still hasn't set up his own home office area, I think it's sweet that he's been taking all this time to get my work space comfortable.

Xmas ornament


Christmas ornaments exchange



The ornament to the left is one I made for my mom-in-law years ago, out of felt and some gold braiding.

Last week, I posted about homemade Christmas ornaments and a proposed Christmas ornament exchange. Singlemaltsilk says she was inspired by the Blatherings comments thread on the topic and has created a new LJ community. "I've created this community because I enjoy making, and sharing, Christmas ornaments. I'm hoping that like-minded crafters will join, and share ideas, resources, tips and (of course) photos of their projects. With that in mind, I've put up a few photos of the handmade ornaments currently on my tree. I hope you enjoy them!" If you plan to participate in next year's xmas ornament exchange, I encourage you to join this community.

You can see a list of the Christmas exchange groups for next year in this entry. If you're interested in signing up, there are still some places available in the second group; please post in the comments of section of that entry.

Blogs and blogging: survey followup



Thanks to those who responded to my poll question about blogs. I found it interesting how many people only read blogs of people they know personally. Many felt their own blogs weren't particularly interesting, but wrote them to keep in touch with friends.

I was delighted to hear that Blatherings helped inspire fifona to start her own blog and folkmew to start posting her watercolor pieces online.

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Just a few excerpts from discussion in LJ:

From figmo:

"I like reading blogs of people who have lives and talk about what they're doing. This can mean anything from a day with the kids to dealing with 'the interesting and famous.' Folks like pafuts and artbeco show that staying at home with the kids doesn't mean you don't have A Life; I particularly like reading their blogs. Both of them also write so well they could chronicle walking from one part of the house to the other and make it interesting. Reading blogs like theirs shows me that choosing a lifestyle that for me would be Sheer Hell On A Platter can be very rewarding to others and puts balance into my own life."

From redaxe:

"I'll read most things that catch my eye. I have on my reading list a blog about malls, a batch of political blogs, humor blogs, blogs with links to music or cool stuff, parenting blogs, blogs about reading and books, general-topic blogs, blogs by high-profile folks, blogs by scientists and academics. Your criterion of "well-written" usually applies, though mine tends toward 'interesting' -- I'll cut some slack in the writing if the person's content is worth the effort. Blogs with good communities of commenters are more interesting, in general, as well."

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From jhayman:

"I like to hear about my friends. Truly personal stuff makes me uneasy, but my definition of 'personal' may vary from someone else's. I'm privy to pretty personal stuff all the time. The little vignettes in blogs add dimension and depth to my understanding of the people I know.

I like to hear about people I've only heard about. Again it's a way to just get a sense or impression of a person. I'm a voyeur of people's lives :-)."

From ldwheeler:

"Well, I myself have the World's Most Boring LJ Ever (I'm thinking of renaming it to that very title), but I like it. :-) I started it last year partly out of curiousity -- a longtime friend michaelhinman had started an LJ, and it seemed to provide a few benefits: a venue for self-expression; a fairly simple writing exercise to use as kind of a warmup for other writing projects (that's had limited success -- I don't even do the warmup every day); and an opportunity to maintain contact with friends old and new. I hope my LJ is occasionally of interest to people; while I ultimately write to please myself, I try to remain conscious of the fact that it's still public and that I'd like to be engaging or at least not annoying.

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Personal blogs I like (which includes the various LJ friends, plus other blogs of real-world people I know) tend to be well-written, by people with interesting lives/pursuits/passions who can express themselves in a coherent and humane manner. While I occasionally like blogs with a narrow focus (and I regularly check a couple political, faith-based, cultural, etc. blogs in addition to my various LJ communities), I tend to prefer a more varied approach -- people who post about family, culture, viewpoints, foodstuffs, miscellaneious silliness, anything else that comes to mind. Kind of like Blatherings, come to think of it. (Your judicious use of photos, artwork, etc., elevates it further.) I don't care for blogs that are All Angst All The Time; or Profanity-Packed, Barely Coherent Rant Of The Day; or Meme Quiz Quiz Meme Lather Repeat. So I try to write a blog that wouldn't annoy me. :-)"

From missquirt:

"I find reading about very personal information fine in some cases (when it's a friend who I would talk about such things with anyway, for example) but very awkward in others. Unfortunately, I ran into trouble once when I de-friends-listed someone whose posts always tended to make me upset. That was tricky because I really enjoy knowing the person in real life, but there are some things you just don't want to know about someone, and it can be hard to avoid reading when it's right there in a short snappy one-sentence post...

Right now, I'm really enjoying reading blogs to read about things going on in Ontario. I'm enjoying the experience of being out here, but I'm always very aware that it's not home, so it can be very comforting to read about familiar places in terms of anything from pancake houses to blizzards to maple trees."

Joys of home ownership in the winter


Photos on today's Blathering were all taken recently. Click on any image to get more details.

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Friday
Dec162005

Blogs and blogging: the good, the bad and the ugly

Illustration Friday: ambition


Poll question of the weekend:
What kind of blogs or online journals do you enjoy reading? Or related questions: What lures you to read a blog regularly? Why do you keep a blog? What turns you on or off a blog?

One obvious reason for reading a blog or online journal, of course, is that you know the person and are interested in keeping up with their lives. Except speaking from experience, I know that I put very little of my personal life in Blatherings; I prefer catching up with friends in person or over the phone.

Please note that I'm talking more about personal weblogs and journals rather than "here's a cool link" blogs. Also, blogs written by people I know in person fall into a different category for me; the following describes my personal preferences when it comes to blogs written by total strangers.

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Blogs I enjoy reading:

Blogs that are well-written, especially ones that have a sense of humour. Although I generally find "shopping list" entries dull (e.g. "I woke up. I had Wheaties for breakfast. I brushed my teeth. I took the dog for a walk." etc.), I enjoy them if they're written well.

Blogs with a personal voice and style.

Blogs that voice opinions. Blogs that are brave in some way, that don't always stick to safe topics. It's a risk, of course, because the larger your readership, the more likely you are to get criticism or antagonize readers.

Blogs that acknowledge readers. Either with a comments section, or by incorporating reader feedback into entries somehow.

Conversational blogs. I don't enjoy reading blogs that come across too much like an academic paper or technical manual. I prefer blogs where I feel as if I've just had a conversation with that person from reading a post.

Blogs with well-written anecdotes about little kids. My friend Amanda Snyder is especially good at this; check out this recent entry. I used to read Lileks more regularly when he talked more regularly about child-rearing. Weird personal preference, I know, considering we don't have children of our own. Or perhaps it's because we don't have children of our own that I find kidstories so interesting. :-)

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Blogs with a specific focus. Yes, this crosses off Blatherings. :-) Unless I know the person, I tend to be drawn to blogs with a single focus on a topic I really enjoy.

Blogs with interesting visuals. I read The Crafty-Girl, for example, both because of interesting drawings and photos but also because she talks about cool crafts and illustration techniques. My favourite photo blog is Daily Dose of Imagery.

Blogs that are frequently updated.

Blogs with something new to say.

Blogs that use links. Nothing more frustrating that reading an entry that mentions an interesting Web site, but doesn't include a link (expecting the reader to look it up himself or herself, I suppose).

Blogs that turn me off:

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Bad writing. Lots of typos. (Assuming English is their first language)

Blogs that are mean-spirited, especially about people whom the author is (likely mistakenly) assuming will never read their blog entry.

Pretentious blogs. Blogs that are a little too "I'm SO cool and I know you're fascinated by every single detail about ME-ME-ME, no matter how mundane."

Blogs that rely heavily on "I'm Luke Skywalker!" type of memes for content, where the result of a so-called "personality quiz" is basically random, especially when one of these gets popular in my Livejournal Friends list and I end up scrolling past pages and pages and pages of identical huge images of Luke Skywalker or Golden Hearts or Tiffany The Happy Fairy. I'll stop whining now (see point below). :-)

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Blogs that whine and bitch a lot. I don't mean the occasional whine, I mean a LOT. From some blogs I've seen, I get the impression that the writer takes a special pleasure in blog-whining ("OH, I can't wait to get home so I can blog about what that woman said/did!")

In Livejournal, blogs with long entries that don't use cut-tags.

Blogs that are too obviously marketing vehicles. I don't mind if the author plugs his or her book, CD or other projects from time to time, but not if every other entry tries to get me to buy something.

Blogs where the author posts even if they have nothing to write about, especially when their entry is basically "I don't have anything about."

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But again...these are all personal preferences. I emphasize (again) all the above "turn-off" factors go out the window for me if the blog is well-written. I'll happily read a 1000 word essay about how much you hate women with big hair if it's entertaining and written well.

I'm also well aware that according to the preferences stated above, Blatherings isn't necessarily a blog that I'd read myself.

:-)

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Wednesday
Dec142005

SuperNoteCard, Samorost2, postcards for my collection

Peeked out the window this morning and the scene reminded me of a Christmas card, with every branch of every tree laced in snow, the street silent and white. I love winter mornings.

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I've mentioned SuperNoteCard from Mindola Software in Inkygirl but I'll plug it here as well: A while back I started using a virtual index card called "Miss Lonelynotes" to help organize ideas for my articles and novel. They've since upgraded the software at least half a dozen times and renamed it SuperNoteCard, and the functionality is now specifically geared towards writers.



SuperNoteCard uses virtual notecards to help writers capture and organize content in fiction (including screenwriting) and nonfiction projects. You can define and track characters, plots, and references in your writing, using "drag and drop" to organize the flow of ideas and information. I'm using it to organize info for my YA novel and have also used it to organize info for magazine articles. You can try it out yourself for free for 30 days, after which you need to buy an activation code (only US$29).

And another link, this one with zero productivity value at all but SO entertaining: Samorost2 (thanks to Jeff for the link). You need to have sound turned on for full appreciation, so it's best not to check this out at work. ;-) The game reminds me a lot of Myst, except with more humour. You can play several levels for free; the full version is US$9.90.

What's YOUR favourite addictive online game, by the way?

Hey, my Blathering about the National Cartoonists Society Christmas party was mentioned in The Daily Cartoonist (newspaper cartoonist industry news blog).

And wow, the response to my crafty Blathering yesterday was such that I already have one Christmas ornament exchange group filled, and a second started. This is for NEXT year's Christmas, by the way (2006!). People in Group One (I'm using LJ ids since I know some don't want real names listed publicly): me, braider, msminir, vixyish, Allison, chirosinger, rms_butterfly, little_cinnamon, missquirt, Beckett. Group Two (so far): Sandro, Lissa, tibicina. If you want to sign up, please add your name to this comment thread. I'll post confirmations and guidelines next year, but basically each person is going to send one homemade ornament to everyone in their Group plus one extra for Interfilk. If you'd like to make/receive extra, you can make special arrangements with members of other groups as well; I plan to exchange with everyone! :-)

And here are some of the postcards I've recently added to my Flickr Postcard Collection...

Sandro sent me a cool optical illusion postcards that shifts images as you tilt it; sorry, but this can't be accurately shown in this scan:

Postcard from Liechtenstein


"Hi Deb! How are you? Well I hope good and confused (because you don't know me). My name's Sandro and I come from Liechtenstein (a small state next to Switzerland) and I'm a huge fan of your comic strips! I found them coincidentally by googling the web for 'comic cooking' (needed it for school). From there on I read all of them and I was laughing like an idiot. I really love them. Thru 'Debbie's Blatherings' I found out about your collection of postcards, so I thought I'll send you one! Searched my whole room and this is what I found. It's been designed by my aunt and I hope you like it. Greets, Sandro."

The (somewhat disturbing! :-)) postcard below is from Joshua:

Postcard from Malaysia


"Hi Debbie! Greetings from Malaysia! I've been following your works/photos for a while, happy to learn that you like to collect postcards as well! Multi-cultural, multi-racial, Mayalsia consists of 3 main races: Malay, Chinese (that's me :-)) and Indian, plus many other minority yet equally important Aborigine groups. Nice to "meet" you again and hope you'll like this one!"

The postcard below is from Michael"beige_alert" Pereckas:

Postcard from Milwaukee


Description on the postcard:
"Greetings from the Milwaukee Art Museum! Named a "New Wonder of the World" by Conde Nast Traveler, this is the first Santiago Calatrava-designed building in the United States. Stroll through the world-class Collection or one of the changing exhibitions.

Rembrandt and His Time: Masterworks from the Albertina, Vienna
October 8, 2005 - January 8th, 2006"

I love snailmail postcards: each is unique, personal, a brief wave of greeting, a miniature still-life. If you send a postcard to my P.O. Box, I'll post it in my collection as well as in my Blatherings: Debbie Ridpath Ohi, 34 Eglinton Ave. W., P.O. Box 189, Toronto, ON Canada M4R 2H6.

Thanks!

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Friday
Dec092005

holiday cheer

Writer's Yearbook 2006


Above: My story is the one circled in red (I did the circling; it doesn't appear on the actual cover :-)). I think this should be on newsstands now.

Fun to read the responses to my Miss Squarehead comics post yesterday. I always love it when people commenting on one of my entries spin off a separate conversation thread in LJ, like the one between Teddy and Annie W. :-)

I bought Christmas lights yesterday! You experienced house owners out there are jaded about this, I'm sure, but this is new for me. I bought two sets of LED C-6 lights from Shopper's Drug Mart; they supposedly use 80% less energy and last up to 100,000 hours. I've hung them up in the Corkscrew Hazel in front of our house but can already tell I need another set.


First set of Christmas lights


I also bought an indoor set for our Christmas tree, which we're getting this weekend. VERY excited about this. Our condo building didn't allow live Christmas trees, probably because of the fire hazard. Jeff and I could tell that some people smuggled them in anyway, however, because of the pine needles in the elevator after the holidays.

Snowy morning


Not sure if we're going to have time to unpack the locker before Christmas, to find the box of decorations we used many years ago. So I'm going to improvise some decorations for our tree this year instead. Say...if any of you are inspired to contribute a decoration, homemade or not, Jeff and I would be most grateful! Even a scribbled drawing on a paperclip will be eagerly received. :-)

If you decide to indulge this unbelieveably selfish plea, you can send it to our new home address, if you know it; I'd be happy to send the address to you if I know you in person -- else please send to my P.O. Box at:

Debbie Ridpath Ohi
34 Eglinton Ave W., POB 189
Toronto, ON
M4R 2H6


(If you're sending a package rather than something flat, I'd appreciate it being sent to my home address instead of the P.O. box so I don't have to pay an extra fee, thanks. :-))

Snowy morning


Looking forward to the housefilk at Sally Headford's tomorrow! Allison's going, too; it's been a while since more than one member of Urban Tapestry has been able to attend a housefilk at the same time. :-)

Some more search engine traffic checks (using stats to check how people find me):

Ben & Jerry's Toronto: I'm #1 in Google.
the knights who sat ecky ecky ni monty: I'm #2 in Starware Search.
marmite and cholesterol: #1 in Google UK.
coping with plane flights: #2 in Google UK.
how to sleep with fractured arm: #1 in Google
want Asian eyes: #11 in Yahoo search

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