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Friday
Mar292002

brief bdy blather






I'm 40, woohoo! No sudden burst of inspired wisdom, but I'm still pretty happy.

Saw Lord of the Rings this afternoon for the seventh time! Allison's and Ruth's fault...both told me about the Two Towers trailer being released with the movie today. Ruth came with us, too.

More birthday Blatherings tomorrow. Today's photos were taken a couple hours ago at my sister's, where I celebrated my birthday with my family. :-)




Thursday
Mar282002

last day as a 30-something






Jeff has asked me if he can do a Guest Blathering tomorrow (it's my birthday, eh? Katy's, too!)...don't know if I should be scared or delighted. :-) Jeff and I are both taking tomorrow off and spending the day together.

I'm getting such a kick out of my virtual birthday party. Many thanks to those who have visited. I know it's only a virtual party, but I can't tell you how cool (and touching) it is to see friends from different areas of my life all dropping by. Sometimes I'll pop over to see what's happening at the party, and get all teary-eyed when I see the people who have visited (I'm such a sap). Or something someone posts will make me laugh out loud (like when Luisa said she was shy). :-) Thanks so much, everyone.



Had fun at Allison's with Allison and Jodi last night in Richmond Hill. Aftering ordering in from an Italian place, we had chocolate cake (see picture at top; I'm holding the cake with lit "40" candles) and Allison and Jodi gave me cards and presents. Allison's card made me laugh out loud (see left and below). She only got away with it, of course, because she's already past the 40-year mark. :-) Jodi gave me some wonderful-smelling Body Shop stuff and a veryvery cool wooden recorder with carvings and polished stones all over it (photo in a future Blathering). Allison gave me some purple stone earrings, a shimmery purple short-sleeved top, a purple Party Glowstick (which I plan to use to keep Allison and Jodi up at night in our hotel room at FKO, woohoo!), a photo bookmark, and some chocolate bunnies.

After some appropriately decadent chocolate cake, we did practising for FilKONtario, and recorded some more songs for Interfilk donation tape. So far, it looks like the following songs are going to be on the tape:

Our Secret Song: song by me (title to be revealed at FKO when we debut it in open filk)

Lullaby For Gustavo: song by me, written for Diana Huey's son.



All The King's Men: our cover of the Tom Cochrane song

I Would I Were: our cover of the James Keelaghan song

Life Is A Bowl Of Oreo Cookies: song by me, written for Lissa Allcock.

May It Be: our cover of the Enya song from Lord of the Rings.

The Road Home: song by me, a love song. Counterpoint by Allison.

Hockey Monkey Song: our cover of the James Kochalka song. Vastly different from Ookla the Mok's version! :-)

Waiting For Frodo: song by me, chorus counterpoint by Allison. Inspired by Waiting For Frodo.

Obsession: song by me. Inspired by Harry Potter books.

Unforgotten: our cover of a Lawrence Dean song.

All songs will come with lyrics and chords. I'm probably going to add some harpstuff, maybe be brave enough to record a harp piece I wrote. If you're at FKO, please do bid at the Interfilk auction (if not for our package, for something else). Interfilk's a great organization; Urban Tapestry was sent to California years back as Interfilk guests at Conchord. So cool to be going back to Conchord again this August! (and this time as the Guests of Honour!) We've heard many wonderful musicians and made new friends as a result of Interfilk.

Forgot to mention in yesterday's Oscar score tabulation: I noticed that several people voted more than once in some categories. In those cases, I counted only the first vote.
Wednesday
Mar272002

virtual birthday party!






Hey, check out the wonderful birthday cartoon that my friend Kate created for me. And be sure to browse the rest of Kate's site to see her other very cool cartoons. Kate is Parki's sister...what an talented family, geez.

You're all invited to my Virtual Birthday Party on the Electric Penguin boards. Please do post something so I know you came by. :-) The party will run until this Sunday (my birthday's on Friday). No pets, please.

The Oscar Poll results are listed at the bottom of today's Blatherings, for those interested.





Today's photos were all taken on the weekend during our brunch with Parki, Alison, JeffL and Kye.

I asked JeffL (who turned 40 a few years ago) if he encountered any sudden burst of wisdom upon turning 40. He laughed at me, of course, but then said that one thing he did start thinking about around that time was life goal limitations. Of acknowledging things that he would never be able to do.

That's so depressing, I told him, meanwhile thinking 'What the hell kind of thing is that to say to me just before I turn 40, geez???'





But as we kept talking, I realized that what he said made sense, and that he was talking about a Good thing, not a Depressing thing.

When you're much younger, you have the whole world ahead of you. You know you can be pretty much anything you want. You have a zillion choices ahead of you, and each path will lead you to an entirely different life. That's exhilarating and wonderful and as it should be.

As you get older, however, your choices narrow. They have to; it's unrealistic and unhealthy to want to keep ALL choices open ALL the time. Yet there are people who are pretty obvious in their desperation to cling to the "I want to keep all my options open" philosophy far too long.





I know now that I will never be a concert hall pianist, though I did harbour secret dreams of being one (among many other childhood dreams) when I was little. Or an astronaut. Or a professional candy maker. (Ok, so maybe I never wanted to be a professional candy maker, but wouldn't that be a cool profession? You know, the person who gets to invent all the different types of chocolate bars and interesting types of candy or maybe I'll just shut up about that now)

But as JeffL pointed out me, this is actually a good thing. Having those avenues closed to me frees me up to focus on what I can pursue, takes some of the pressure off. I know myself far better than I did ten or twenty years ago. I have a much better grasp of what I want and don't want out of my life, and how I want to spend my time.

And the happy choices I have made still keep me pretty busy. :-)

If you're 40 or over and would be willing to share a life wisdom or two, feel free to post in Blatherchat or e-mail me.






Oscar Poll Results



Feel free to correct me, but here are my totals for the Oscar Poll. Number of correct predictions:

Sherman: 11
Alisa: 12
Shai: 9
JohnO: 9
Dave Henry: 10
Paul Stockton: 12
Scott Snyder: 11
Amanda: 12
Allison: 13
Chris: 0 :-)

FIRST PLACE: Allison
SECOND PLACE: Alisa, Paul, Amanda
THIRD PLACE: Sherman, Scott

Woohoo, lots of winners! I'll be sending Inkspot pens out to all of you (to Paul & Sherman: could you please send me your snailmail addresses?) I'll also be posting silly poems for all of you on Blatherings over the next while (will also send by e-mail).

If I've miscounted anywhere and you feel you've been ripped off, please do let me know.

Congratulations, everyone!

Here's the poem for Allison:

A SILLY POEM FOR ALLISON
By Debbie Ridpath Ohi
Mar. 27, 2002

Of the filk group Urban Tapestry
she's troublemaker of us three
She hates to have her picture taken
or at least by me.

THE END

Is that art, or what?

And no, I never did harbour aspirations of being a world-famous poet when I was a kid. :-)





Today's Blatherpics:










This is a vinyl record that Alison had with her. She was wondering whether any of us had an easy way to transfer vinyl records onto CD. Sadly, none of us own turntables anymore.



The back of the Kiddie A-Gogo album cover.



Allison, Parki, JeffL, and Jeff in front of Curiosity restaurant this past weekend.



Young Kye, who slept throughout our entire brunch. He is wearing a cap and sweater knit for him by Ginny (Jeff's mom).



My birthday present from Alison & Jeff. Note the cool Japanese-theme wrapping paper! I'm especially intrigued by the "prune gummies"; I might have to do a special Blathering just on that when I work up the nerve to try them. :-)

Tuesday
Mar262002

focus group






(Oscar poll results announced tomorrow, I promise...still haven't had a chance to properly tabulate)

So I went to my first focus group last night.

It was an impulse decision, prompted by curiosity (I've always wondered what happened at a focus group, and the topic was digital cameras), greed ($50 for what seemed like an easy hour) and an e-mail from a friend who said that because of last-minute cancellations, the company was desperate to get more people to participate.

After calling the phone number my friend had given me, I talked to a nice-sounding fellow named Avi who grilled me extensively about my use of traditional cameras, digital cameras, buying habits, other demographics. I was nearing the point of irritation (this was just a pre-screening; was this all a scam to get me to answer survey questions for free?) when I was told that I qualified, and that I'd be receiving a phonecall to confirm the appointment later that day.

More prescreening questions during the second phonecall, plus detailed instructions about when and where I was supposed to go, and to bring photo id. I needed to show up 15 minutes in advance, I was told, or I might not be paid.

The next evening, I show up. I'm immediately taken into a small room and given yet another pre-screening interview in which some of the information I gave in previous interviews were confirmed. Except most of the info seemed to be wrong. No, I wasn't between the ages of 45-55. No, I didn't use 6-10 rolls of print film during the past year. Didn't matter, I still qualified (they must really have been desperate for people, I guess).





I am given a name tag and then taken to a carpeted waiting room with comfy seats and a table with coffee, pop, and cookies. Other people with nametags are waiting, as well. We all eye each other curiously; there seem to be a wide range of demographics in evidence...an older corporate executive guy in a suit, a young trim executive woman type, a teenage but chic girl, a student type, a housewife. How do they see me, I wonder?

I'm scheduled for the 7:30 pm focus group slot. 7:30 comes and goes. We waiting room people start getting restless. We start talking to each other. Two of us are focus group newbies, the others have all been through the experience before. One (the housewife) has been to quite a few; the last one was an all-day affair with a full meal. The meal was pretty good, she says. I ask her how much she was paid and find out that she was paid $140 for four hours of listening to talks about mutual funds.

We keep waiting. I'm getting somewhat ticked off. It gradually dawns on me that they have us trapped. We're paid for an hour, but they can keep us waiting forever. I go to the front desk and ask how much longer it's going to be. The woman apologizes, says it shouldn't be much longer, that they're backed up right now.

At the half hour mark, a slick-looking guy comes out and calls my name. He is wearing a silver-gray tailored suit with a black shirt, one earring, and (even though we're indoors and it's nighttime) hip-looking sunglasses. I give a cheer (I actually do cheer, amusing the others in the waiting room) but a few minutes later am sent back to the waiting room because he found out he made a mistake. I get more ticked off. The woman from the front desk refills the plate of cookies.





About an hour after I was told to arrive, I finally get to go in. The room is packed with people and about seven tables with camera-related things on them. I'll be taken to three of these tables. I'm assigned to a guy from the marketing group...I can't remember his name, so let's call him Alvin (I'm grateful that it's not the slick guy with the sunglasses, who ends up being assigned to someone else). At each table, I'm also introduced to a representative from Kodak.

Each Kodak person does a brief presentation on some aspect of the new camera (the overall design, the e-mail tagging, etc.), then Alvin goes through a detailed questionnaire. Kodak is testing customer response to a new model of digital camera that's going to be released next year.

They ask me what I think of the design of the camera. I only get to see a prototype (since it's still being designed), and it is butt-ugly. I tell them so, but am more tactful in my wording. The design reminds me of my very first "real" camera when I was a kid, the point and shoot kind, very plain and very rectangular.

All the questions during the hour seem to assume that I am an empty-headed consumer who goes ga-ga over cool-looking camera design without much thought to actual functionality. One of the initial screening questions was something like "If you had to compare your taste in choosing a camera design to choosing a car design, which of the following cars would you choose?" I laughed out loud, I couldn't help it. When I realized the interviewer was still waiting for my answer, I told him to pick the smallest car.

After we are finished (and it takes exactly an hour), they thank me and give me a $50 bill in a plain white envelope.

My overall conclusion? It was worth doing once, just to see what it was like, but I doubt I'll do it again. :-)




Today's Blatherpics:

I turn 40 this Friday! These are photos of a birthday present sent to me by my friend Helen (she recently moved to London from Amsterdam).








Front of the t-shirt that Helen sent me for my birthday. The picture in the front is of the Clangers, a kids' television show from the 70s. She said that even though I might be turning 40, I'm still a kid at heart. :-)



Me in the t-shirt.



Helen also sent me some chocolate bars: two Curly Wurly's, and two Cadbury Fudge Bars. This is the newspaper in which the chocolate was wrapped. :-)

Monday
Mar252002

defender






Woohoo, Lord of the Rings won four Oscars last night! I'll collate the results from the Oscar poll tonight (unless someone wants to do it for me before then :-)) and announce winners tomorrow. I didn't pay attention through the entire thing, but I did have favourite bits:

- Cirque du Soleil performance

- When Randy Newman finally won for Best Song (he's been nominated SIXTEEN TIMES before without winning)

- Every time Lord of the Rings won an award, of course :-) It won in four categories: makeup, score, cinematography, visual effects.

Here are the list of winners, for those of you who care. I want to update Waiting For Frodo, of course, but it'll have to wait until tonight or tomorrow. Need to get some work done first. :-)





Jeff helped Parki move his Defender machine into the One Trick Pony office yesterday morning. Jeff and Bryan are sharing the space with Ray, Scott and Tony. VERY cool office.

While we were picking up Parki and the machine, I checked out the a very cool (and one-of-a-kind) table that Parki designed himself out of snooker balls, snooker table felt, steel rods, plywood boards, refectory leaf table slides, sheet glass, and assorted fittings. For details and construction photos, see this page. He did most of the table construction himself.





Anyway, I pretended to be helpful while Jeff and Parki moved the Defender machine (which still works, by the way) but actually spending most of my time documenting the process. It looks pretty darned cool in the OTP office.

I've tried playing Defender at Parki's, but I play pretty much the same way I did when I played it years ago when it first came out. I suck at it bigtime. :-)





The three of us had brunch at Curiosity with Alison, Jeff and Kye. Kye slept through the entire thing. :-) Alison and Jeff gave me my birthday present, which consisted of lots of cool Japanese chocolate and candy (yum). I turn 40 this Friday!

Worked on the short story collab in the afternoon, then had dinner at my sister's place. Sara played some musical pieces that she had either composed from scratch or arranged (from pieces she had learned in her lessons) for certain scenes from the Lord of the Rings movie, on her own initiative. My favourite was her Balrog piece...very scary-sounding!

I was bursting with pride, of course. :-)








Today's Blatherpics:










A mask that Parki made years ago (that guy is way too talented for his own good). I had it hanging in the old Inkspot office. Now it hangs in the offices of One Trick Pony.



Fridge magnets on One Trick Pony's fridge door.



Parki's snooker table.



Parki and Jeff relocates Parki's Defender machine from his house to the office of One Trick Pony.



One Trick Pony office.